Get Your Free AI Dating Decoder Workbook & Save Your Seat for Our 5-Day Free Workshop
AI Dating Decoder™ is an online course and toolset that teaches women how to use AI to expose red flags before you get played and find the hidden gems you might have swiped left on.
🔒 100% secure. No spam. Just clarity

Created by Robin Leigh Hadem: AI Relationship Strategist | Dating Analyst for Women Over 40
Tired of Dating Scammers, Players and Time Wasters?
Our tools don’t just filter out the wrong guys - they help you recognize the right ones.
We combine AI’s pattern-recognition power with intuitive prompts designed for smart, independent women like you.
✳️ For women healing from toxic patterns.
✳️ For women who want love without the chaos.
✳️ For women ready to date smarter and safer.
How the Free Beta Workshop Works
💌 This is a 5-day guided experience designed to give you clarity, confidence, and tools to protect your heart in today’s dating world
❇️ 5 Days. 5 Powerful Modules. One Complete Transformation.
In this exclusive beta test, I’m teaching everything from my full 6-week program - condensed into 5 days of back-to-back live sessions.
👉 No long waits between modules. No drip-feed. Just clear, focused guidance every single day so you can start decoding smarter right away.
❇️ Day 5 Includes a Bonus Module - Go Beyond the Basics
On the final day, you’ll unlock next-level decoding strategies that help you identify red flags, green lights, and emotional patterns faster and with more confidence in REAL TIME!
❇️ Beta = Exclusive First Access + 100% Free
This is your invite to experience AI Dating Decoder in action and because it’s the beta, you’re getting in for free while helping me shape the final version of this once-in-a-lifetime program.
💡 If you’re ready to stop guessing, stop wasting time, and start dating smarter - this is your moment.
🦄 100% free. No spam. Just clarity.
I felt crazy asking questions getting spiraling stories, NOW I expect clarity and don't apologize.

- Carrie Ann 62yrs
Now, I run every message through Ai Dating Decoder, which helps me identify red flags before I get too invested.

- Rebekah 44yrs
I used my Ai Dating Decoder tools with several "pen-pals" hanging around my dm's, I unmatched and moved on with zero spiraling or second guessing.

- Deserie 47yrs
I ran my ex's profile through it and wow!!! I'll never ignore the signs again.

- Trishell 38yrs
How AI Dating Decoder Works
Start Decoding the Truth Before it's Too Late.
1️⃣ Upload screenshots or chat text
Feed your matches into our custom AI-powered Decoder designed specifically for modern dating analysis.
2️⃣ Let the Decoder do what basic AI can’t
Our proprietary system analyzes dating-specific patterns, emotional tone, and hidden red + green flags all fine-tuned for women over 40 navigating today’s dating world.
3️⃣ Get clear, actionable insights instantly
Receive expert-level AI guidance so you can spot sincerity, detect BS, and move forward with confidence.

It’s time to stop trying to create a love story
with a man who was never built for the ending you deserve.

The AI Dating Decoder Live-Online Workshop
Five day Workshop + Bonus Module Live Zoom Sessions.

Module 1: Your AI Wingwoman
Set up your personal AI dating assistant.
👉 Create a custom GPT profile that mirrors your voice, values, boundaries, and preferences so AI helps filter matches like your most protective best friend.

Module 2: The Ten Archetypes
Spot the patterns before they break your heart.
👉 Learn the modern dating archetypes, from the Love Bomber to the Avoidant Charmer. AI helps you identify the role these types play in your story so you can exit the script.

Module 3: Vetting Profiles + Digital Messages
Where AI meets your intuition.
👉 Vet dating app profiles and decode messages to separate sincerity from scam. Break down communication styles so you can spot charm traps and subtle red flags before you get emotionally invested.

Module 4: Pattern Break-Downs & Breakdowns
Toxic attraction is a two-way street let’s reroute.
👉 Uncover your own role in recurring patterns. Break the cycle of old programming so you can choose love from your power, not your past.

Module 5: The High-Value Reframe
This is your high-value reset to flip the script never written for you.
👉 Learn to stay emotionally neutral as you assess potential matches. Cultivate an attraction field that draws in aligned connections.

Module 6: Bonus Integration Workshop
Tie it all together with LIVE decoding hot seat workshop
👉 Walk away ready to move like a high-value woman one who dates from self-worth, not scarcity. Shift your energy, upgrade your standards.


Stop Wasting Time - Start Decoding N0w!
Your ONLY chance to get this ONE-TIME for FREE an $1195.00 VALUE!!
Live Workshop
$999
/ 6 week Live Zoom Online

6 weeks of guided support

AI toolkits + live coaching

Community + feedback
5 Modules + Bonus Module Guided Study
Self-Paced Course
$196
/ Self-Paced Pre-recorded

Learn on your own schedule

AI toolkits + video lessons

Independent access
5 Modules Independent Study
💘 100% free. No spam. Just clarity.
When I make healthy choices and do healthy things,
I attract healthy people and aligned opportunities.


Robin has this rare, almost psychic ability to see the deeper truth not just in dating, but in your life story. Her creative tools helped me decode patterns I didn’t even realize I was repeating. As a Gen X woman who thought she’d 'figured it all out,' I was floored by her insight. She's not just teaching she's awakening something in you. I finally feel like I'm not settling, and that’s thanks to her.
- Melissa, 51

There’s something about the way Robin blends fierce truth with spiritual clarity that just hits different. Her AI Dating Decoder isn’t just smart; it’s soul-deep.
She gets what it’s like to rebuild yourself after years of giving too much. Working with her reminded me that midlife isn’t the end of something — it’s the beginning of owning every part of who I am.
- Tasha, 48
Meet the Woman Behind AI Dating Decoder
Hey Wild Soul, I'm Robin
creator of AI Dating Decoder and founder of
After becoming single at 45 and navigating over a decade of modern dating chaos, heartbreaks, middle-age fvckboys, and hard lessons, I built this program to help smart, independent women like you date with clarity, confidence, and most importantly safety.
🌹 Because I know what it’s like to want real love without the noise and bullshit.

Your Clarity Starts Now!
The Smarter, Safer Love Life You Deserve.
👉 You’ve done the healing. Now it’s time to date smarter, safer, and with total clarity.
AI Dating Decoder isn’t just a tool - it’s your secret weapon for cutting through dating BS, spotting sincerity, and protecting your heart in today’s world.
The AI Dating Decoder system built for specifically for Gen X / Millennial women
Bonus prompt packs + toolkits
Instant access to the self-paced course or a seat in the 6-week workshop
🩷 Because your love life deserves more than guesswork.

Limited spots don’t wait to save yours.
It's a Dating Game Changer!
Each week also includes:
🌟 Holistic living guidance
🌟 Ayurveda-inspired nutrition + beauty rituals
🌟 Nervous system resets + healing practices
🌟 Guest healers to raise the vibration
🌟 Supportive women’s community walking this path with you
💋 100% free. No spam. Just clarity.